TTHE MOST INFLUENTIAL PEOPLE IN MY LIFE.

Cruz Pozo Monar.
Composition # 1 Draft # 3
10/10/09
THE MOST INFLUENTIAL PEOPLE IN MY LIFE
Each person receives influence from other people since beginning to live. It sometimes is bad, good or the appropriate influence, but is important for the new parents to be prepared in different aspects, like finances, emotional, affective, to have values, if they are ready for to be parents, they will be good influence over them. Children in their formative years need special care, best nourishment, education, rules to follow, things like that are going to determine the rest of their life. Children that receive good influence will be confident persons with goals, good professionals, useful for the society. Usually young parents are not going to be good influence over their children, so they do not have too much for to offer them, is sad to see children are given in adoption or babies raised by grand parents, because their parents are economic insolvent with absence of values scale. Now, we are able to determine what kind of influence is appropriate for us, we have to take the best influence, and to rule out bad influence. In each stage of my life, I received different kinds of influence like my parents influence, my son Danielito, and my husband.
My parents are going to be forever the most influential people in my live because they are responsible persons. First, when they got married, they were poor but hard workers. Nevertheless, they raised their family and became prosperous in their town. Although they did not finish their School, they took experience from other professionals about education for us. Our parents always were worried about theirs children's education, and they pressed upon us the importance of being professional. They sent us to study at the university, and we became professionals. My father participated during my school time, so he taught me times tables, he took care that we keep good handwriting. Right now, I am trying to do the same with my son. My mother is very self-sacrificing with her children. She is especially model to follow, and while I was living with her, she gave me many advices and put special care during our teenager stage like; do not get pregnant or single mother at early years. She is active person, and she told us that lazy people have bad pansies, so she did many activities to keep busy us all the time. We learned from her to knit sweaters, socks, scarf, shawl, etc. and I did many of them for everybody in my family. She is generous person, when she sees poor people use to share clothes, food or money with them. And now I try to be helpful with my coworkers at my job, and when I see new employer, I usually offer my help, and I encourage them to asked me wherever they need.
My son, Danielito, is right now one of the most influential people in my life because we had him when we were in 30s. We love and wish the best for him. First of all, Daniel is our unique son, and continuity, and we trying to give good use his skills because we do not want that he waste it. We want that Daniel keep his maternal language, we teach him this idiom, and in spite of the fact that Daniel was born in Ecuador, right now, he is able to speak and write English and Spanish. Later, when he will visit our family in Ecuador, it will be easy for him to communicate with them. We know the sport keep healthy to the people, and in this order, we are paying to Daniel some registrations, and now he is taking swimming and soccer class, so it keep busy. We know that children must receive good influence since their formative years, they must lead as a winner, and later they will be independent and confident persons, we will not have to worry about their economical situation in the future. In this order, my husband and I are pressing him to be a good student, and now Daniel is attending second grade in top class. We encourage him to be professional. We teach him values in order that Daniel must be confident person and very kind with his fellows. He is very kind and lovely with us, every time he tells us nice words, as I love you. He is helpful. When I had surgery few months ago, he was ready to help me when we went to the supermarket. Finally, each child represent a challenger to rise in the correct way, it is hard bud not impossible.
Finally, my husband Ricardo is a good influence for me. First of all, he is my confident friend, and I can trust in him. He encourages me to improve my English in order to be an independent and find a better job in a conceivable future. He is a smart person, and when we were partners at the university, he got good grades; it influenced me to do the same. Secondly, he is a responsibility person. Since he lives in this city, he assisted economical his family and help them to improve theirs live style, later when we got married, he took economical care of us. He is a good father. He helps to our son with his homework every night, so we liked that our son get good grades in the school, also he is a sport man, in fact every Sunday he plays some sports with my son’s friends at the park in order that our son has friends and be healthy. Ricardo does not have bad habits and practice values. In fact, he does not smoke or drink alcohol because he wants to be a good example to our son. He motivates us, and when Daniel improves some subject, he buys gifts for him. Furthermore, he is romantic. He buys for me flowers and presents in special days like mother day or birthdays. He is our support economical, emotional end affective, and in him, we can find unconditional help.
Since we were born, we received influence, but are important to emphasize about the relevant persons, because they gave me rules, experience, lessons, and examples that lead in each stage of my life. I had three influential people during my life. My parents were the best influence during my childhood and single step. Since I got married and had my son, my husband Ricardo, and my son Danielito have been the most influential people, each one in different ways. I want to take the good quotes from them and give the best to, also, I do not want to forget other persons that were good influence too, one close friend named Laurita, teachers, partners, neighbors and relatives, each one influence direct or indirect in my life.